Perempuan Yang Independent Tak Perlu Lelaki Beli Dia Dengan Wang Ringgit

Baru je log on Facebook. Tengok-tengok ada satu notification ni kawan kita mentioned kita kat komen. Haha, bertuah betul.

Sebab bila jumpa haritu ada borak-borak pasal effort in relationship. Yes, effort is super super important.

Perempuan yang independent tak perlu lelaki beli dia dengan duit. Tabur dengan hadiah macam-macam. Seriously don’t try to impress us with your money. It is a major turn off. Kalau kacak tapi kasar pun tak boleh jugak. Cukup bagi tenaga, masa dengan komitmen sepenuh hati. Tu la maksudnya effort.

Give your woman something that money cannot buy.

Bila gaduh ke, selisih faham ke, ada kekurangan ke, jangan la give up. Try your best to solve the issues. Kalau ada kekurangan dalam pasangan, jangan mudah cari pengganti yang lain.

If something is broken, try to fix it. Don’t simply throw it away and buy the new one. Put your best effort please.

Kata nak sampai syurga kan?

Contohnya, kalau pasangan suka make up tebal-tebal, and mostly her make up is not on point, jangan la pergi kutuk pasangan sendiri.

Do you know how much effort she put only for you to notice her? At least you can do is to wipe her make up off and tell her she’s already beautifully created for you. Tell her to embrace her flaws, and her imperfections are perfect.

That is the kind of effort that women need from men. Seriously more powerful than money.

Jangan letak effort sebelum nikah je, dah nikah effort terbang merata-rata takde hala tuju. No.

Contohnya wife mengandung ke, berpantang ke, cuba jaga wife sepenuh hati. Jangan la wife tengah pregnant tapi pergi cari perempuan lain.

She’s carrying your child, man. At least put some effort not to break her heart. Give her your time and attention. Effort jugak tu.

Korang nak sunat pun dah sakit macam apa kan. Ni kan pulak isteri nak deliver anak korang. Sakit berjam-jam, private part kena gunting bukan sikit-sikit sebab nak keluarkan kepala baby, bahu baby.. sakit weh. Bayangkan pun dah sakit. Ni pulak deliver betul-betul. Kena jahit, tak boleh gerak sangat nanti bleeding lagi banyak.

At least bila wife berpantang, tolong jaga sama-sama anak korang. Tolong uruskan isteri korang. Takkan nak lepas tangan je? Jangan bila pantang terus hantar isteri balik rumah mak mentua. Lepas tu enjoy macam org bujang. Bila isteri dah sihat, cepat je nak pick up. Lps tu pregnant balik, berpantang hantar balik rumah mak mentua. Don’t be that kind of man. Be responsible. Tu pun kira effort jugak.

Sama-sama jaga isteri, bagi isteri masa sembuh sepenuhnya. Jangan bagi alasan time tu nak cari lain macam orang bujang. Kalau isteri badan naik, support dia. Jangan kecam. Jangan sibuk dengan handphone searching for other ladies.

Yes, sekarang ni memang banyak perempuan yang love to expose themselves in a very seductive way on social medias. Don’t ask me, I don’t know why. Maybe their parents, partners or spouses don’t give so much attention and effort to them. Tu yang jadi macam tu.

Orang yang cukup kasih sayang always feel enough about themselves. Tak perlu sampai nak tayang diri goda-goda macam tu just for attention.

But all I know is when you commit to a relationship, you need to put all your effort to maintain it. Regardless.

Women, respect yourself. Respect others’ relationships.

Guys, protect and respect women. Respect your partners and spouses’ feelings who give in so much for you. Always be in control of your act.

Kalau dah put the best effort tapi rasa macam takde effect lansung, check balik niat kita.

Kalau niat salah, betul kan balik niat kita “Lillahi Ta’ala”.

Inshaa Allah dipermudahkan. Amiin ya Rabb.

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